Being a Good Human: FAQ[edit]
What does "being good" even mean?[edit]
It means acting with kindness, integrity, and care for others—without needing perfection or approval. It’s less about grand gestures and more about everyday choices: listening deeply, owning mistakes, and choosing empathy when it’s hard. It’s a practice, not a fixed state.
How do I know if I'm being ethical?[edit]
Ask yourself: "Does this action respect others' dignity and well-being?" Reflect on how your choices impact people (and the planet), and trust your gut when something feels off. Ethics grow through practice, not perfect answers.
What if being kind feels exhausting?[edit]
It’s okay to set boundaries—true kindness includes caring for yourself too. Rest isn’t selfish; it’s how you sustain your ability to help others. Prioritize small, sustainable acts of kindness, not constant heroics.
How do I handle someone who's not being good to me?[edit]
Respond with calm clarity: "I feel hurt when you [specific action]. I need [specific request]." Protect your peace without hatred—walk away if they refuse to respect you. You can’t fix others, but you can choose your response.
Is it okay to prioritize myself sometimes?[edit]
Absolutely! You can’t pour from an empty cup. Prioritizing your needs (rest, health, joy) makes you better equipped to support others. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential for being present for the world.
How do I teach my kids to be good?[edit]
Model kindness and honesty in your daily life—kids learn more from what you do than what you say. Gently discuss choices: "How do you think that made them feel?" Focus on empathy, not perfection—let them know mistakes are part of growing.
What if I've done something wrong?[edit]
Own it simply: "I’m sorry I [action]. I’ll [fix it/learn]." Apologize sincerely, make amends if possible, and grow from it. Everyone stumbles—what matters is your willingness to do better next time.
How do I stay motivated?[edit]
Focus on small, daily choices, not big goals. Celebrate when you choose kindness, even when it’s hard. Remember: being good is about showing up, not being flawless—your effort matters more than perfection.
Why This Matters[edit]
Being a good human isn’t about being flawless—it’s about showing up with heart, learning from stumbles, and choosing connection over judgment. Every small act of kindness ripples outward. You belong here, exactly as you are.